Home in a Box.

I’m all about the ‘less stuff’ mode of living.  Sure, it’s nice to have nice things, but at the same time, i probably don’t need to keep all the books I have, or all the clothes I wear only rarely, or all the little markers of life that I seemed to have accumulated.  I recognize on an intellectual level that it’s all incidental, not integral.  But still, it’s rare that I clean it all up and throw it away.

But there are people who do.  The recent financial crisis has had a few upsides.  First, people are driving around less and wasting less gas, which I thought would never ever happen in this country.  Second, people are moving into smaller, more affordable homes.  Some people are going through extreme downsizing, living in little places that are 100 square feet or less.  I like to call this the ‘Home in a Box’. Somehow that sounds more cute and livable than ‘tool shed’, which is more or less what these homes amount to.

Personally, I don’t see myself getting a tiny house on wheels any time soon.  But the idea of a small place is cozy to me.  I see a wide front porch on a small little house with eager flowers climbing around it.  I see a bakcyard with lots of trees and a small vegetable garden somewhere.  I see an open living area in the central space, and light and living things everywhere.  I’m ready for it.

Thank you, science, for calling me cold.

For those of you who don’t know, I have a lifelong condition known as icicle-hands.  You can attribute it to bad circulation or a lack of insulating blubber around my fingers, but the facts of my condition remain.  1) If I’m sick or there’s a tropical heat wave in progress, my hands are either slightly warm or room temperature.  2) Otherwise, my hands range from icy to sub-Arctic.

It’s never really been a problem for me.  Most of the time, I’m used to the sensation of cold fingertips and don’t feel the need to warm my hands.  I’m easily able to comfort and soothe those with feverish brows with a simple touch of the hand.  And, of course, there’s the old adage of ‘cold hands, warm heart’, leaving me to reap the benefits of other’s perception of me as a warm and loving person.

However, recent studies may show that old adage to be completely false.  There is an indication thus far that physical warmth may promote both the perception of others as warm and also promote actions that would be considered ‘warm’ – kindness, thinking of others first, and genuine affection.  It is possible that since my hands are colder than most everything, ANY touch would promote ‘warm’ behavior in me.  However, other than this explanation, the recent research leave me in the cold (that was an unintentional pun, I swear).

The main conclusion of the research is much more broad – that physical and psychological concepts are deeply related, even in the way the brain processes both.  However, I would challenge researchers to examine such evidence in an area where language is not directly involved.  If we give both a psychological and a physical concept a shared name, obviously we think there is a connection between the two.  One area of investigation might be colors, which have different psychological meanings in different cultures.  In such cases, the strength of the affect of physical concept on psychological reactions might be better judged.