Today I’ve been handling some of the incidentals of moving to (yet another) apartment. Basically that translates to filling out countless forms just to change my address. While the advent of the internet allows me to update most of my information ‘virtually’, that still means typing in the same new address over and over again. While it does mean i now know my new zip code, still I’d rather not. If I had my druthers (whoa, and the spell check on wordpress recognizes druthers as a word!), there would be only one form to update for all of the endless financial, governmental, and work-related groups I need to update on my new home address.
But there is no universal form, basically for reasons of privacy. Your home address, just like your phone number and social security number, is meant to be private. That’s why people can choose to be ‘unlisted’. That’s why you have to update others as to your new address, rather than some widespread system (outside the post office) tracking the change. In addition, each of these groups does not have the right to know you belong to any of the others. So, it’s your prerogative to tell or not tell as you like.
I appreciate the privacy. I don’t want every hobo on the street knowing where I live. I don’t enjoy the idea of putting myself on endless lists of interest in certain products or at the mercy of various interest groups. But I do like my convenience. I like Amazon recommending new books or CDs to me. I like the idea of being able to update every aspect of my life with one fell swoop. And all of that is based on allowing others access to my private information.
How much is too much? Where do I draw the line and say, “No, I’m not going to tell you what type of creamsicle I like best”? When do I realize it’s too much to re-enter my music preferences each time I visit Pandora? Is the internet really breaking down traditional barriers and ideas of privacy, or are we merely revealing information to a new community – international users and service providers, rather than those neighbors and friends in our immediate physical area? Is any of it a good thing, and to what extent?